Real people? Where are they? I actually have noticed a lot of people try and pretend they are someone else and later on you see their true colors. I’ve heard it all before, “I’m different,” “I’m real” and my favorite one, “I’m a straight up person.” However, all this is quite temporary. The true meaning of being different, real and straight up means one thing in this world: Speak up. Though a lot of people do not like this type of person, you would be surprised some do enjoy the bluntness. If only people where more real with each other and more truthful, I think there would be a lack of drama in this world.
I’ll give you a scenario:
Your talking to a person everything is going well and you’re hitting it off. You all meet up go out to dinner and then after dinner continue to text a few days after that. Eventually, the phone calls stop (one person decides) and the text messages become less.
Now the question is ….why doesn’t the person just say: Hey I’m not feeling it?
To be honest: that person was never “different,” “real,” and “straight up” as they had claimed to be. This
person was simply putting a front and pretending to be someone else. In other words that person was fake.
Some people would say the person was trying to not hurt the other person’s feelings. I’ll say stop making damn excuses. I would be more hurt if I found out I was lied to, then someone telling me the truth.
That brings up the question why pretend to be someone you are not? Does it make you feel better? Or do people just enjoy playing games? Well that’s another blog saved for another day.
The conclusion or the moral of this blog is simple:
If you can’t be straight up and real, do not pretend to be.
*My Words, My Canvas*
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