Intimacy and Desire

Intimacy and Desire is a unique understanding of the way marital impasses are a natural path to relationship growth. The sexual desire everyone wants has nothing to do with hormones and sex drive, because we want to be wanted and chosen (not just needed), which only comes from your partner’s heart and mind, and ability to want. For some, and for various reasons, sexual passion and relationship intimacy may weaken over time.

A major problem in dealing with sexual desire issues: Typically the partner with low or no desire feels defective and withholding, and the high desire partner takes it personally. But Intimacy & Desire starts off showing how the low-desire partner always controls sex, whether they know it or like it or not. For example: The low-desire partner controls sex, when the high-desire partner says, let's have sex, and the low-desire partner says, well, I don’t feel like it, and the high-desire partner says, well, you don't love me, that's the end of sex.

Why and how did humans evolve this way? Desire became entwined with humankind’s emerging “self” millions of years ago, which makes human sexual desire absolutely unique.

There are four points I would like to bring up that add balance to intimacy and desire in a relationship.
1. Personal growth
2. Lasting desire,
3. Hot sex
4. Profound intimacy (i.e., “sex worth wanting”).
These four points are the cause, solution, and outcome of sexual desire problems.
Your personal history fits into any love relationships. In a love relationship, you confront your partner and talk about who you really are; you talk about your desire, problems from your past, and times where your life changed entirely because of a love relationship. Points of balance are always involved.

To improve your desire, intimacy, relationship, and change your mind—for those struggling with intimacy and desire try, “Hugging till Relaxed.” This is a therapeutic technique where you hug your partner until you feel comfortable enough to let go. Hug your partner for 30 seconds. This is a journey of sexual desire; self-exploration and personal development to better intimacy and desire delivers between you and your partner. By increasing your intimacy and desire you are creating a more meaningful relationship.

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