Communication is a topic I touch on quite often. Once again I would like to write a short blurb about it. Especially for those readers of mine who are in some sort of relationship, whether it is friendship or a coupled relationship.
What does communication mean to you? To each their own, but this is my blog. My definition of communication required understanding, feedback, words, body language, tone, writing, eye contact and expression.
This becomes very hard when two individuals are living far apart. This is when words can become the most powerful tool in your relationship. Use it! Time with this person is precious.
Let me explain why communication is important:
**NOTE**WHEN THESE THINGS BECOME REPETITIVE IS WHEN THERE IS A PROBLEM**
-You do not see this person every day; communication is limited to the internet and cell phones.
-Neglecting and not communicating with this person will not do good, only harm. This person will get the impression they are not wanted.
-When phone calls decrease significantly in amounts that is another sign of lack in communication and tells the other person to Move On.
-When the person does not call to say good night anymore, not only is communication not being used, the relationship dynamics are failing.
-Neglecting important topics will lead to unhealthy relationship and unsatisfying one.
- Also for all the men and women out there in long distance relationship. When a guy or girl rather spends more time with a friend who they can see every day, any day instead of taking a few moments out of his or her life to talk to you, there is a problem. Move On.
I know what my decision would be when placed in that situation, what is yours?
*My Words, My Canvas*
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