Girls, women, females really annoy me sometimes. I know so many females who always complain, worry too much, and need constant advice and reassurance. Let’s talk first about the reassurance.
My friend calls me and says, “I texted him five minutes ago why didn’t he reply back yet?” Um are you seriously that desperate? Maybe he is in the shower, taking a shit, masturbating maybe he is busy? Then when my response is not enough to satisfy the person they continue to ask, “Maybe he doesn’t like me?” Really? How low is your confidence and self esteem? This is when girls get frantic and keep texting the person. Saying: “Are you there?” “Hello?” Then they get pissed off at the person and think to themselves, “Well I won’t talk to him!” However, as soon as the person texts them back and say’s, “Hey sorry babe (whatever it may be) I was in the shower,” the girl automatically changes. Talk about annoying! Don’t get me wrong I like to help my friends, and give advice. But why are they so hung up on these guys? They are replaceable (no offence to males).
Then we have the girls who worry too much. Wait those are all girl’s right? So a girl meets a guy she sleeps with him and then she worries will he call me? Um no! Wait, yeah he will call you the next time he needs a booty call or just someone to fuck. Then we got the girls who think their man is constantly cheating. He got off work at 5pm and its 5:15pm why didn’t he call me yet? Is he talking to someone else? No female, he is not talking to another girl. He probably is talking to his boy(s), mom, or walking to his car getting his Bluetooth all set up so he can talk to you on his ride home! Just text him and say, “Hey hun, I know you just got off work but I miss you so call me when your free =)” Also you assume he’s cheating because either you been hurt in the past and think he is like every other guy or you are talking to someone else on the side and have the guilt haunting you.
Let me just conclude a few things. Girls please chill out, stop chasing and let them come to you. When you call always leave a voicemail or else he can always say that I never got the call. Sometimes when a cell phone is out of range the missed call does not show up ladies. If he doesn’t reply in the 5 minute time frame you gave him do not blow up his phone. Stop sleeping with just any dick and then expecting a relationship from that guy. Trust if he got you that easy he doesn’t want you. You’re like a prostitute except for free. Also learn what to say, when to say it and how to say it. There is always a time a place for everything.
This qualifies for any gender. It's an experience or phase that anyone can go through in trying to develop their role in life. Sure, it's called low self-esteem, and those who want to help by giving advice will be either helpful or wasting their time because the spazz doesn't know how to interpret advice to grow out of that course and graduate.
ReplyDeletebut other than that, you make some very good points in calling out insecurities and keeping an open mind for all possibiities to end assumptions without valid evidence. great post! =)