Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Today’s Topic Is…

Failure is a result, a temporary outcome. It is not an end to a goal. Failure alerts us that the path we have taken is incorrect, and that we must try a new one in order to achieve success. Why are there multiple roads to success? If success was easy to obtain, it would not be an accomplishment. The more roads you take to a destination, the more you learn about the environment and your abilities, and the more capable you become.

The difference between “failures” and successful people is simply that failures give up after the first time they fail, and successful people view their failures as lessons. Fear of failure is what causes us to stray away from true happiness. We can either settle with mediocre, “safe” lifestyles- or we can follow our dreams and obtain ultimate happiness.

What is failure? Failure is a step to success. Without failure, success would not exist just as there would be no light if there was no dark.

Never allow anyone to make you believe you are a failure, and never allow yourself to believe that you are the mistakes that you make. Really, you are weak for not accepting your failures for what they are and moving on from them on. Let go of the people that make you feel like you are less than what you really are. They are just intimidated by how bright your light shines, and it causes their fears to tenfold because they become aware of the fact that they are living in fear when they see that you are not. They would rather dim your light, than illuminate themselves. Recognize their fear and move on.

Don’t be afraid to express who you really are, and don’t be afraid of other people’s judgments. Your light as an individual is much stronger than the darkness of mass society. Just use that light and you will see.

Make your mistakes, and take them lightly so you can learn from them. When other people criticize, don’t pay too much attention to their judgment. If you believe in yourself, no one else can make you feel like a failure. People, who don’t believe in you, don’t believe in themselves.

You can be alone in your beliefs and dreams for success, you don’t need anyone to stand behind you or believe in you. In the end, you are the only one who will and can bring yourself to success, eventually you will attract positive people into your life, and when you do have that support, appreciate their light as well.

Instinctually, we all know what our capabilities are and how to obtain our greatest goals. The reason we become confused about these things is because we are not aware of them. We are not aware of them because our fear blinds us from remembering who we really are and what we are living for.

Do not let the temporary pain of failure confuse you. Pain is weakness and fear leaving the body. If you don’t go through it, you cannot be strong and if you are not strong, you cannot be successful. Pain is temporary and if you are strong enough, it is a positive experience to go through. Failure is a positive thing. Embrace it.

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