Let me pose a question.Trust. What is your definition? And why? But here is my outlook on it. (Kind of jaded, but it’s me we are talking about, you can’t expect anything less.) My outlook on life and dating and relationships in general is this:
As soon as you start noticing others and saying “Damn, I want a piece of that.” Then consider your relationship over. You are bound to become depressed and unsatisfied. And if not that then you are bound to cheat. So end things right now! It’s only fair.
Finally, as soon as there is a dwindling feeling of mistrust or loss of trust you need to pay attention and not ignore the gut feeling. If it’s persistent, then chances are you are right. Might as well as end things. Because the longer you drag your feet the harder it becomes to end things and more callused you become. So confront the boy, tell him that you think he is cheating and you don’t trust him, pack your shit up and leave. Because you are never going to fully trust him again. EVER. And this applies to men as well.
I think trust is a big thing. As soon as you loose it you may just as well as kiss everything good bye. Regaining it may be incredibly difficult, and even then you will never trust this said person at 100%. I don’t understand couples who go through something as traumatic as infidelity and then go back together like nothing ever happened. I am just different that way.
It’s funny how accurate your inner voice can be. The more you ignore it the louder it becomes and eventually (usually when you are knee deep in trouble) it will fade away and leave you stranded. So pay attention to your instinct. It’s there for a reason.
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